幸福结局

我觉得这里的“happy endings”是一个相对的说法。

我现在越来越觉得，如果你在生活，那么经验主义也会带你进入歧途。简单的比喻-快乐和痛苦对每一个活人轮番攻击，每一次鲜同，所以每一次都要全新地去认识，我想我们才能获取更多。也许大家把它归结在“生活的规律”里面，而规律我觉得，在生活中，不能把它当作数学公式。

Happy endings,never endings ,unless you're already a dead.
Happy endings-越过了当前的痛苦，下意识或者说不可抗拒的等待着未来的更高一级的痛苦。

希望每个人许许多多的“happy ending”.

[最后]电影的屏幕分割方式，给观众带来很多轻松的心情：）

他們在離開那導演家的時候在車上 說的話....不錯不錯
..開始時候的一個3層鏡頭，我很喜歡
但是對於 海報 總覺得怪怪的
那個 奥蒂斯 的老爸說 ：別讓xx洗床單，她就像你媽媽一樣！``哈哈


想進afi不容易啊...相比現在國内上映的電影...還是推薦它好一點吧
再一點，裏面的配樂很喜歡...

狗屁藝術家..都是壞人！`

其实结局是否快乐，圆满，幸福本就是主观的东西，配上轻飘飘的音乐，灿烂的笑脸，总是很容易看到快乐，虽然那么多的无奈，我们都可以不在乎。也许是否完美的结局只在于最后是在无奈里找到了快乐，还是始终在快乐里挑出无奈。
然后我们总会联想到生活。是的，就像是生活，不在乎了，无论什么，我们都可以一句it's ok然后竭尽洒脱。总有人生就一副无所谓的脸，总有人看起来可以自己打理好一切，总有人在事过之后显得更容易放手，更容易忘记过去，似乎也不思考将来，只看着每一刻更新的现在。就好像Maggie Gyllenhaal电影里面那副玩世不恭的脸，那副只想要过好自己生活的高傲的表情。
一直想看。最开始冲着标签而来，以为挣扎的gay片；然后在演员表里看到老掉的phoebe，总算点击了下载；看过之后，终于忘不了Maggie Gyllenhaal……
她好像真的不需要结局，她总是独立在人群之外，她不在乎，总是不在乎，其实没有人给过机会让她在乎，看似太过坚强的人其实总在最终被忽略，也许这样的人物形象始终鲜明，甚至很容易被注视，却没有人会想她内心里有何经历，人们已经习惯看到他们一次次重新鲜亮起来，却看不到一次次的伤。
从始至终，Jude得到的字幕是最少的，只记得一句，大概是，the one in trouble here is her.
嗯，我们应该相信没有任何足以伤害她。
我们凭什么相信？

没有人可以天生坚强，坚强总是被迫……

This film to me is about redeeming qualities of however flawed personalities. There is no evil here, and in this sense it is not very American, in a more puritan, Manichean sense. We are led to believe that the wrongfulness of people's behavior has more to do with unthoughtfulness or carelessness, than plain wicked nature or ingrained vice. Very refreshing.
　　
Yet, precisely for this reason, the film would have been stronger if the plot strains credibility a bit less. It is a comedy about the reality of human conditions, if you will, therefore it must present a illusion of some sort of reality. The writer/director, hoever, indulges in too many caricatures and cartoonish turns of events to stay close to that illusionof reality. Too bad.

The film could have been enlightening; now it is only entertaining.

昨天看了Happy Endings，奇怪之前留言的是哪位高人，电影不像我以为美国片，不过很好看，简言之就是fz，老公夸我竟让能把这么fz的电影看懂，有长足的进步。Lisa太老了，不过还是我喜欢的口气。那个Jude确实演得挺好的，但是我不喜欢这样的角色，我太幼稚了，只会用爱憎去评价人。其实这电影在数码伴侣里不知道呆了多久了，就是昨天没事想找部片子看，想起来这两个演员是两个理由让我把它看掉，推荐！

Honesty is such a lonely word

"Happy Endings weaves multiple stories to create a witty look at love, family and the sheer unpredictablity of life itself."

It's a comedy, sort of. For the sake of Lisa Kudrow I picked this movie, then I realized it was far more than a simple comedy, instead it's a great lifestory. I spent 2 hours of my "Bachelor's night". And it's worth the time.

Happy Endings begins with an unhappy ending, it then goes on with three stories of 10 major roles.

Some mid-age woman gave up abortion, gave birth to her son and then gave up the baby to adoption. Twenty years later a stranger came to her and said..."well I know about your son.", although he was trying to blackmailing her. He was dishonest, only telling part of the truth.
Some Mexican immigrant, a masseur and also a sex-worker who provided special services with fingers only. He was also dishonest. He married a woman to get the green card.
Some lesbian couple raising a kid, while their gay friend wondering whether they used his sperm but lied about it...
Some lonely father and gay son...happy ending that the father finally took his son as "just the way he is".
Some young talented girl who intoxicated me with her beautiful songs, she'd been through romantic relationship, which she thought would lead her to marriage, but gave up the fetus in her and left with grief.

...and these people are all connected, in one way or another. you see the stories moving on, sometimes depressingly. The narrative method is unique but familiar: using text captions for 'forecasting".