走过冬季

是在怎样的情况下，要去看这部电影。思来想去，其实也是自己有意的寻找。一直都喜欢的，朴素的家（或者说是杂乱温暖），满屋子的书

       蔡康永在《LA流浪记》里写到过一个同班最忧郁的男同学：提姆 贾维克，其父母都是有名的心理医师，于是该同学有着极其杯具的童年：爸爸像探照灯，妈妈像显微镜。《TBBT》里Leonard Hofstadter的父母都是有名的科学家，尤其是母亲，可与Sheldon Cooper抗衡，Leonard同样有悲催的童年：没有生日派对圣诞派对，得不到母亲的肯定甚至拥抱，活在其兄弟姐妹成就的阴影里。2009年MTV开场Madonna向MJ致敬的演讲里提到他们两人的相同之处时说：我没有母亲，而他没有童年。但当你一生都活在整个世界的放大镜下时你如何重塑你的童年？

       被父母牺牲了的孩子可谓数不胜数。Reese的父母都是文人，父亲还是个著名的小说家，以至于有书商来买他们的信件，在我眼里这通常是已逝文豪才有的待遇。才华横溢的理想主义者，现世无尽的孤独是他们的宿命。即使他们都已经尽力了，仍然给不了小Reese想要的童年里应该充满的爱与关怀。母亲的神经质到最后的自杀和父亲的避世导致Reese离家。这样的题材是很能吸引我的注意力的，那一房子的书和素材，父母接近传奇的爱情和一生，女儿脆弱和歇斯底里的情绪，父亲孱弱的身体和接近崩溃的心智，再加上与父亲不离不弃的学生和父亲的守卫者。我看着电影就好像《第十三个故事里》的玛格丽特看着父亲古旧书店里一排排的旧书，我深知这所有的背后都有着被尘封的故事而我渴望全部揭开他们。

        我没办法停下来不去想如果这是一本小说该多好，作者会怎样描写Reese那写满敏感和不安全感的硕大的蓝眼睛，会怎样描写Reese父亲满头的银发和佝偻的身躯，会怎样写憨厚的Corbit和外表平静坚强的Shelly，会怎样写已经开始破败的大宅子，会怎样写每次Reese和她父亲交谈时撕扯和爆发的情感。

         孩子大了应该离开家。不管是好还是坏父母的影响都在拽着你不让你往前走，可是如果你不走出你父母用圆规以房子为圆心以爱为半径画出的圆，你永远也不会是一个独立的人。家是一个你用一生去逃离的地方。

         爸爸妈妈从我回家以来就没有停止过念叨，我当然不否认我很值得念叨，但是他们也应该认识到他们的念叨没有意义。可是当妈妈听到也是做父母的朋友主张自己初二的女儿可以更独立一些时并没像养我那阵时赞同：到时候他们上大学了去工作了你就更见不到了，这是因为我已经迫不及待要回学校。早在高考填志愿时我就一心要离得远远的，虽然没得逞但是上大学期间依然回来得少得可怜，现在要去工作了也绝对是往远方跑，即使是那些无亲无故的地方也绝不考虑待在家里。我很高兴用短短几年的时间就让家成了故乡。我只知道即使是走错我也要自己错，要怪罪我也要怪罪自己。虽然让父母骄傲注定是孩子永远的梦魇，我也想让他来得慢一些来得缓一些。

          如果说Zooey的表演或诠释多数是特定的一种类型，那此片算是Zooey的突破之作。

You look at this film, especially the cover, and you think quirky comedy. Will Ferrell's in it, so you know it has to be a comedy. Well, it is quirky, but Winter Passing is not a comedy; it's actually a pretty bleak, depressing film.

This has got to be the most misunderstood and sadly overlooked movie of the year. It is very deep and heart felt, Dark and moody.
But it is so wonderfully written and acted, that it makes me sad that it didn't get the attention that it so deserved.


I admit, the first half hour were painful to watch.This is a slow, contemplative and unhurried movie, and depending on your tastes, some may find it rather flat and dull. Yes, this movie of one girl's journey to reconnect with her father is often monotonous and sometimes tedious, but it's also well acted and carefully nuanced. Director seems intent to incorporate a very minimalist script into the action, which in turn manages to convey a lot of feeling from saying very little.


The story line is quite simple, it's about hurting, lost people who come together and care for each other. Anyone who loves the idea of a tortured writer or actor will love this film. Plus there is a bit of comic relief courtesy of Will Ferrell's character that I couldn't imagine anyone else playing that role than him. It starts off a little slow, and does feel rushed at the end, but I think that's probably because by the end I felt somewhat attached to these characters that I didn't want it to end, nonetheless the ending didn't disappoint. We all have are flaws, realizing this and accepting it is something this film embraces.

I loved the imagery, the way she gives a feel for the harsh life alone all these years, the way she play the piano with barely nails in the loving boy's, he asked her "what are you afraid of".
 I love the way I could almost feel the cold, the way it drove me nuts that everyone closed the garage door by putting their hand through the missing window pane, in the winter.

The scene of her sitting under the tree by the lake, reading the letters. Without any comment, you know how cold and hard that ground was, but she stayed until it got dark, discovering for the first time the love that was the foundation of the unhappy life she grew up in. That scene was so intense for me in its silence


This film is about learning how to feel, how to deal and how to go on. It is so painfully beautiful and moving.
It exceeded my expectations, as I thought it might be too artsy, or too deep that I wouldn't understand it till weeks of pondering and deep reflection...but it's not like that at all.


If you like a movie that takes you on a slow moving, thoughtful journey of the heart, this is the one.

Sounds that take you home.

We are unique.
We are easy to understand others,but it's difficult to be understood.
What's the unique,that's what we have our own world.
And we choose to live in the world that's quite different from others.
It's easy to get what we want，if we're willing to sacrifice sth.which means big to others,but exactly means little to us.
It's difficult to let others completely in,and we keep it with honor and suffer.
Given it's easy to be not myself,but still get myself to be always in struggle.
We want others to know our world,but not
everything everyminute.That's the struggle.
However,we are looks like attractive,and no one found we're lonely.
But fortunately,if we are never stopping to find out the world. Maybe,some day,some one,will be on our side.
When we met each other,we have to accept some compromise for not me.
That's magic and very difficult,not for the beginning of it, but for the things going on.
 Maybe we will kill each other,and maybe only will save us by each other.
 When the winter passing,love and hope be the key to our world.